To the second-degree friend. A long time after we've lost contact, I was at a bar and spotted a mutual friend, and I wondered if you were there too. So I sms'd you, and you replied immediately that you weren't. We could have stopped there, but suddenly you added that you were going through a tough breakup though I didn't even know you got into a relationship in the first place. You were upset that you fell in love so deeply, and the only answer I could give is there's no point to love if not deeply. You had no rebuttal to that and we didn't speak again.