The most common phrase used by my friends to describe me to strangers seems to be "not your type". Once I pinned down a friend and asked her what she meant by that? She looked nonchalant and replied, "You know lah... you read too much, write too much, think too much, talk too much, play pool too much, listen to music too much, travel too much, club too much, go out with guys too much. You're just... too much." omg.