Nelson was telling me about the time he was in Milford Sounds, near Queenstown in New Zealand. He was on a cruise ship and unlike the rest of the folks who stayed under shelter, braved the cold and wet to be on deck. He couldn't understand why they didn't want to go out to see the wonderful scenery of sea, waterfalls and mountains with low-hanging clouds. He was in love with that moment. I asked if he wanted to recapture that moment when he fell in love with someone. He said no. On the contrary, at that moment he didn't need anyone, not even the nicest, hottest and best dispositioned girl on earth would have mattered to him.